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Read more about the article Lessons in Autumn

Lessons in Autumn

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:September 7, 2024
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[Updated] As we move into the autumn season, I wanted to revisit lessons we can learn from autumn. There are many lessons in autumn we can learn, particularly lessons from…

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Busy Enough?

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:May 4, 2024
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I would say in many ways I am a recovering busyness addict. I wrote a prior blog a little more than 2 years ago on “Busyness Addict”. And I decided…

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Reflecting: Crossroads, Transitions, and Endings

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:August 31, 2023
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As I reflect back over the last few years, it takes me back a bit. The amount of loss is pretty overwhelming.  The last few years have had conflicts and…

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Resiliency Boost

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:June 1, 2022
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We can build our resiliency throughout childhood, adolescence and yes, even as adults. There are different things to do to boost your resiliency.

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Self-Reflection

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:May 1, 2022
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I have been pondering the quote from Socrates, “an unexamined life is not worth living” (published in Plato’s “Apology”), I do think there is something important about self-reflection individually and…

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Empathy to Compassion

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:April 2, 2022
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Charles Figley coined the term Compassion Fatigue in the early 1990’s. However, I believe it really is empathy fatigue. As we use more compassion and move away from empathy, it…

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Finding Balance

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:March 2, 2022
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The idea of a balanced life can be challenging for many. What does it exactly mean, to be in balance? The Yin and Yang of life?  Let’s look at the…

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Give Grace

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:February 16, 2022
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I have been thinking lately about grace, love, and truth. I hear myself saying a lot, give yourself grace or give some grace. There are 2 quotes that have stuck…

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Wild Heart

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:February 1, 2022
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I don’t like the idea that getting through difficult times should make us tough. Tough is hard, brittle, and unyielding.  In the Nanea Hoffman quote, “NOTE TO SELF: It’s not…

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When Do We Lose Our Way?

  • Post author:Karen Gentilman
  • Post published:January 16, 2022
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We seem to show up into the world with a better sense of who we are then when we are adults. Whether it is trauma, family, and friends’ influences, our…

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